Men and Women Use Different Languages

Men and Women seldom mean the same things even when they use the same words. e.g. when a woman says " I feel like you never listen" she does not expect the word never to be taken literally. Its an emotion she is feeling at the moment. Its really important that as couples take the next step with their Vows for Eternity they keep these differences in mind.

Some Common Complaints that are easily misinterpreted

1) She says: We never go out.
    He hears: Thats not true. We went out last week.

what is wants to say is that she wants to spend more time with him. what he hears is a complaint that he doesnt do enough.

2) She says: Everyone ignores me.
    He hears: I am sure some people notice you.

what she wants is for him to give her more attention.

3) She says: I am so tired, I cant do anything.
    He hears: Thats ridiculous. You are not helpless.

All is wants is for him to ask her is she is ok.

Shared from the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".

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Arranged marriages were common worldwide till the 18th century. However in India they are still very popular as Indian marriages are not just the coming together of two individuals but of two families. Vows for Eternity, is one of very select Indian matrimonial websites based in USA , with a major presence in India as well.

In days gone by, the elders of the family would, by word of mouth, tell each other about eligible boys and girls, who were of marriageable age. At marriage ceremonies and functions, often young men and women would be taken along to be ‘seen’ by prospective families and many a marriages would be finalized with the blessings of the elders. However, with more and more Indians going outside India and being spread out all over the world the ‘old way’ of finding the right partner is no longer as successful. In India we have depended a lot on our elders to guide us in finding a good match as people lived together in large joint families and everyone knew everyone. With families getting nuclear, and busier, and being more geographically spread out there is a great need that has arisen for Indian matrimonial websites to help in finding that someone special.

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