Men and Women Use Different Languages

Men and Women seldom mean the same things even when they use the same words. e.g. when a woman says " I feel like you never listen" she does not expect the word never to be taken literally. Its an emotion she is feeling at the moment. Its really important that as couples take the next step with their Vows for Eternity they keep these differences in mind.

Some Common Complaints that are easily misinterpreted

1) She says: We never go out.
    He hears: Thats not true. We went out last week.

what is wants to say is that she wants to spend more time with him. what he hears is a complaint that he doesnt do enough.

2) She says: Everyone ignores me.
    He hears: I am sure some people notice you.

what she wants is for him to give her more attention.

3) She says: I am so tired, I cant do anything.
    He hears: Thats ridiculous. You are not helpless.

All is wants is for him to ask her is she is ok.

Shared from the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".

Second Chances

Life has so any shades of grey to it. When one gets married one hopes and wishes that it is for life, however despite best efforts sometimes it doesn't happen. Sometimes people will stay in a marriage either for the sake of society or even just for the children. 

Whereas more and more people now are realizing that its really important that the relationship between the couple is the foundation of the family life. And if that is not great it is better to separate than subject themselves and the children to a life of disagreement and discord. That is why more divorce rates are increasing and people are asking for second chances-and why not? Divorce matrimony services are very popular in these instances.Sometimes a person is dating someone for many years and doesnt commit after all those years, is that better than someone who had the strength to commit and then despite best intentions the shaadi did not work out?

Which Indian Matrimonial Site is the best?

Marriages is not just an important tradition in India it is one of the core connectors of society. Marriages in India do not just bring two individuals together but two families. In India there is a strong focus on marriage, no matter what the age is of the children, until they are married they are settled in the eyes of their parents. People might be middle aged however if not married parents will worry about them and there main focus will be to get them married. 

These days its getting tougher to find the right partner as people are moving towards nuclear families and the social interaction is much less due to people being so busy it their own lives that it leaves less time to interact with other people from one’s community or other communities. How then do people meet? This role that traditionally was done by the elders in the family has been outsourced to a great extent to matrimonial sites. There are a number of sites who help families in the search for the life partner and Vows for Eternity is one such site. However not every site works for everyone. Some have success with one some with the other. Unfortunately there is no way to guarantee success and if you ask someone which matrimonial site is the best?each person will give the name of the site that works for them.