Men and Women seldom mean the same things even when they use the same words. e.g. when a woman says " I feel like you never listen" she does not expect the word never to be taken literally. Its an emotion she is feeling at the moment. Its really important that as couples take the next step with their Vows for Eternity they keep these differences in mind.
Some Common Complaints that are easily misinterpreted
1) She says: We never go out.
He hears: Thats not true. We went out last week.
what is wants to say is that she wants to spend more time with him. what he hears is a complaint that he doesnt do enough.
2) She says: Everyone ignores me.
He hears: I am sure some people notice you.
what she wants is for him to give her more attention.
3) She says: I am so tired, I cant do anything.
He hears: Thats ridiculous. You are not helpless.
All is wants is for him to ask her is she is ok.
Shared from the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".
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